Oral Sex Questions You Were Afraid To Ask
Wait a minute, using the mouth? Some find it the perfect way to set an intimate atmosphere. And some say it is of great help to incite arousal. While some say, it is a great foreplay technique. On the flip side, one might say “eww, gross.” But usually, oral sex is potentially harmless, making it a common sexual practice amongst teens and adults. Moreover, it is not readily associated with virginity. Due to the benign portrayal, oral sexual health remains in the shadow. Over the years, the image of oral sex being linked with taboo has shifted. It is a sexual activity not condemned by most countries.
SNEAK PEEK
Before I dig into the common health concerns associated with oral sex, I will familiarise you with some basics.
Cunnilingus is practiced on a person with a vulva or vagina. Clitoris plays a vital part here. Licking and kissing are used and can help achieve orgasm.
Fellatio is performed on the penis using tongue or throat, sometimes both. The scrotum too can be stimulated.
Anilingus is another activity that involves the anus.
Can oral sex lead to STDs/STIs? – Yes.
Generally, experts say that oral sex is comparatively safer than vaginal and anal intercourse. Yet, it carries its own baggage of risks. Since the HIV epidemic has kept everyone shaken, it is important to know what all infections can be caused by oral stimulation. The probability of HIV is less but never 0. Specifically, chances of STIs increase in the case of multiple partners. However, the best way to prevent transmission is by wearing a condom or using a dental dam.
Some common STIs that you must have heard of include –
- Gonorrhea
- Genital Herpes
- Syphilis
- Chlamydia
- HIV
- Hepatitis (A, B, C)
- Pubic Lice
- Genital Warts
Can semen be ingested? Can it result in pregnancy? – Yes/No.
Semen can be ingested since the composition is safe to digest. But people allergic to semen can witness symptoms of HSP. There is no connection between the gastrointestinal and reproductive systems in humans, so the sperm break down and do not result in pregnancy. If sperm comes in contact with the vagina via fingers or afterward during intercourse, fertilization CAN take place.
Is gagging normal? Does it affect the throat? Can the tongue be at stake?
Yes, it is completely normal to gag while giving a blowjob; it is the body’s natural response, reflex action. However, the throat can be affected greatly if the activity is prolonged. Due to the high friction during deep throat, bruises can happen. If the tongue is participating in repeated and rash cunnilingus, then it may become prone to ulceration.
Does it hurt?
Yes and No. The genital area is highly sensitive. Oral sex is very less likely to hurt, but rigorous pressure can redden and irritate the vagina. Usage of teeth isn’t a good option either while giving a head. Mostly, oral sex is pleasurable and shouldn’t hurt.
Oral Health
Since the mouth is the mastermind behind this sexual activity, oral health is impacted and affects your performance back too. The worst thing we fear at the dentist’s clinic is to have bad breath. Foul smells often attract embarrassing moments. Nobody really likes to talk to someone smelling bad.
Here, hygiene is in a critical position. One’s oral hygiene influences their sex life. It is often recommended to prevent bad breath by rinsing since bad breath before oral sex will only worsen afterward. Gargling and brushing should be done properly. On the other hand, since sex impacts oral health, the genitals must be clean and fresh.
Cleaning here means maintaining a hygienic routine. It is not favorable to use artificial body scents, and it will only cause a change in pH levels or might cause allergic reactions. Vagina owners are super insecure when it comes to oral sex because of the smell but remember, ALL VAGINAS SMELL TO SOME DEGREE. A vagina is an organ of art, not a Chanel perfume. This is sadly one of the reasons why women are more likely to give than to take.
Teeth cavities can serve as an orogenital route to bodily fluids like menstrual blood, pre-cum, and semen, making the transmission of infections easy. Unhealthy teeth with bacterial plaque sprout painful risks as well. Sores on the tongue and bleeding gums must be checked. A recent study shows the link between dental problems and erectile dysfunction. This proves the solid tie between sexual and oral health. Good teeth and gums decrease the chances of erectile dysfunction.
Conclusion
We saw frequently asked questions and the relationship between oral and sexual health. We came across various sets of dangers inclined. Worry not, contraceptives reduce the prospects widely. Historically speaking, oral sex has received a lot of criticism and not considered ‘normal’. Some researchers say that there are many benefits of indulging in oral sex. It reduces stress, helps in improving memory, facilitates anti-aging, and brings partners closer!
As we proceed towards the end perhaps something I feel is the key to good oral-sexual health is preparedness. It is always advisable to be prepared for what is to come. Nevertheless, the act should always be consensual. People treat their mouth like a temple, if you don’t like touching another person using your mouth, you shouldn’t. Also, it is not necessary to gobble down semen (and other fluids). An activity like such can aid you in exploring your body and your partner’s.
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6 thoughts on “Oral Sex Questions You Were Afraid To Ask”
Explained very well
Hope more and more people read this and spread awareness.????????❤️
This is so informative!!
Is it bad to receive oral sex for male after female eats?? Or in the morning should they brush the teeth an tongue before or after? i dont want bad breath on my penis..
Hello, Bob. We recommend hygienic precautions both before and after proceeding with any kind of sex. Do have an open and honest chat with your partner and let them know about your preferences! We further advise you to visit a Doctor in case you observe any abnormal signs on or near your genitals.
How long does female scent stay on the males breath after giving her oral. I think my bf is guilty of cheating.
Hello! There is no research on any specific odour that remains on someone’s breath after oral sex, nor is there a specific timing through which it lasts. However, we always advise hygienic precautions and recommend you to visit the Doctor for any clarifications since “bad breath” can sometimes be indicative of underlying disease. We also encourage open and honest communication with your partner!