Internal Condoms: The Lesser Known Contraceptive For Vagina Owners
What Are They?
When we talk about condoms, a general picture that is produced in one’s mind is that of an external condom, i.e., a condom for a penis. However, that is not the only kind of condom that exists. Simply put, internal condoms are condoms that go inside one’s vagina or anus. For a long time, they were called “female condoms” but it was soon realized that the term is exclusionary of all genders. Hence, “internal condom” is the right term to use when referring to a condom for a vagina owner. Internal condoms create a barrier for the sperm by covering the inside of one’s vagina or anus. Like any other condom, internal condoms not only prevent pregnancy but also help prevent sexually transmitted infections. Precisely, internal condoms cover the inside of one’s anus, vagina and some other parts of the vulva. Moreover, internal condoms allow for insertion or movement of a penis, sex toy or fingers. Internal condoms are a good contraceptive option for vagina owners who do not want to mess up their hormones by popping contraceptive pills.
One thing to keep in mind is that using an external condom (a condom for a person with penis) and an internal condom together is a complete no-no! Friction can lead to them slipping or sticking together and eventually, one of them breaking.
How To Use?
The internal condom is generally bigger than a regular condom but works well if used correctly. An internal condom has an outer ring (open end) and an inner ring (closed end). The inner ring is pushed into the vagina as far as it can go, up to the cervix. Inserting an internal condom is similar to inserting a menstrual cup or a tampon. The best part about an internal condom is that it can be placed hours before sex, unlike a regular condom which requires penile erection. However, there are some important points that a vagina owner should keep in mind while using it-
- Always check the expiry date of the condom before using it
- An internal condom already comes lubricated but you can add more lube to lessen friction.
- If you’re inserting the condom into your anus, remove the inner ring. If you’re inserting it in your vagina, leave the ring in.
- Make sure the condom isn’t twisted. Let the outer ring hang about an inch outside your vagina or anus.
- Hold the condom open as a penis or a sex toy goes inside your vagina or anus to avoid slippages.
- If there’s semen in the condom, twist the outer ring (the open end that hangs out) to keep the semen inside the pouch.
- Finally, after removal, dispose of the condom in the trash. Do not flush the condom as it can clog your toilet! Internal condoms are not reusable so use a new condom every time you have sex.
- If cum or pre-cum spills outside the condom near your vagina or anus you might become prone to STD/STIs. In this case, getting tested for STDs is a safe option.
Where To Find?
The fact that a condom for vagina owners exists is sadly not widely known. There is a smaller number of manufacturers for internal condoms and thus they remain largely unavailable in local pharmacy stores. The lack of basic know-how on how to use internal condoms also deters vagina owners from giving it a try. But, fret not! We’ve got you sorted. Here are some places where you can buy internal condoms-
Conclusion
Internal condoms can take some time to get used to but they are definitely worth the effort. Assimilating insertion of internal condom during foreplay and using lube as and when required is the right way to go about it. As long as you’re having fun and communicating with your partner(s), all will be well. Moreover, remember that because of condoms you’re able to have sex without stressing about being pregnant or catching STDs. Now, that’s one less thing to worry about!
Cover Illustration: IPPF East & South East Asia & Oceania Region
Written by: Anshika Goel
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