You Won’t Even Last 5 Seconds!
So you decided to get dirty huh? Don’t lie, otherwise, you won’t be here reading this. Anyways, your savior is here for you.
Handjobs might seem simple and might not get the spotlight like some other sexual acts, but trust us —
when done right, they can be a total game-changer. And let’s be honest, giving a handjob isn’t everyone’s cup of tea and THAT’S OKAY. Whether you’re new to this or trying to up your game, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know to give a handjob that feels amazing to your partner saying, ‘Wow, where did you learn that?!’ Spoiler: Right here;)
Before we get into the nitty-gritty, let’s clear something up: the idea that men DON’T need consent or foreplay is a total MYTH often heard from not just females but men themselves. They often overlook the need for consent and foreplay. However, guys aren’t just walking ‘on’ buttons and no matter their gender, consent and foreplay are non-negotiable for everyone.
Tips to get going!
- Communication is THE key (with a Twist):
Communication is the secret sauce to your recipe. And no, asking for what your partner likes is not gonna be a mood killer, rather it’s hot. Try something like, ‘Do you like this?’ or ‘What if I do this?’ Plus, it shows you care about their pleasure, which is the sexiest thing ever. To notch up things a bit, you can also try whispering it or using a very low sensual tone.
- Explore the Terrain
Start slow and not like you’re trying to win the race.Explore your partner’s body and their erogenous zone around the penis. Think of it as a warm up. Start with gentle strokes using your whole hand but don’t stay there. TEASE. And please don’t ignore the Bobas. Play with them gently or massage them. Handjob accompanied by foreplay and stimulation of other areas result in a longer and more intense orgasm. Pay attention to how your partner reacts. Their faster breathing, moaning , leaning into it – are all good signs!
(source:comos)
- Never give a dry job
Always use a lubricant. It’s a game- changer. The texture of the lube itself changes the sensation game. To find what type of lube is suitable for you, The Wetter the Better: Your Guide to Choosing Lube is your go to guide.
- Mix it up
Now that you have the basics, it’s time to get creative. Try different pressures, speeds and rhythms. Some people love a firm grip, while others a lighter touch. And don’t forget the tip — it’s equivalent to the bean in female. The most sensitive part, so remember to give it some extra attention. Use your other hand to touch their thighs,nipples or lower stomach (yep, the same tricks).Or if you plan to turn it up a notch, try both hands for a double dose of pleasure.
- After care
After you are done with the fun part, indulge in aftercare. Ask them what was their favorite part of the act or what they want to try next time. A little cuddling or a shared laugh can make the whole experience like a cherry on top.
Conclusion
Remember, there is no right way when it comes to exploring pleasure. And practice makes a person perfect. So, go ahead — explore,communicate and have fun. And let us know what are your pro tips or hacks that you absolutely swear by.
(Image Source: cosmos)
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Thanks for the tips!