Do you know how to do it right? Masturbation for Penis Owners.
Yes, Yes, we all Masturbate. I think we are well beyond this ‘belief” and understand that masturbation is a normal part of being a human being. And apart from being normal, it is a healthy practice.
For our young readers, who are yet to explore the world of masturbation, let us define what it means. Masturbation simply means stimulating the genitals, or other areas of your body, for pleasure, irrespective of whether one is sexually active with other people or not. And not to scare you off, but lots of people masturbate! Even if they don’t talk about it, it’s common for people of any gender or age to do it. Even before puberty, children sometimes discover that touching their genitals feels good.
In this candid yet informative blog, we delve into the realm of male masturbation, addressing common questions that penis owners may have.
Most men start masturbating at around ages 13-14. According to one survey, 60% of young men aged 14 reported they had masturbated at least once. That number increases to 80% for 17-year-olds, and by the time they reach adulthood, between 89–94% of men report having masturbated at least once.
Even though pop culture has helped to de-stigmatize masturbation, it has also made it seem as mundane as brushing your teeth—a morning shower or pre-bedtime routine.
List of tips for solo play!
- Use SEX-TOYS – Fleshlight! : Sex toys aren’t just for people with vulva. For penis-owners, Emily Morse, a sex expert and host of the popular podcast Sex with Emily, recommends the Fleshlight, the popular handheld column that you slip over your junk to simulate the feel of real vaginal or anal sex. (You can even buy an accessory to free up both your hands.)
- Vibrators: Recent years have seen an increase in vibrating sex toys designed for dicks, because honestly, those vibrations can feel damn good on penises, too! One 2012 study found that 44% of heterosexual men had enjoyed the experience of using a vibrator at some point in their life, so don’t be shy about trying some of these toys.
- Experiment with your nondominant hand. An easy way to spice up the self-pleasure experience is to use your non-dominant hand. Stimulating yourself from a different angle will awaken you to all new sensations.
- Stimulate your prostate. Massaging the prostate gland (located just inside the anus, informally called “the male G-spot”) can add pleasure to your masturbation experience. Begin by applying lube to your free hand’s index finger, and using it to gently caress the rim of your anus. Once your anus has relaxed, slowly insert your finger inside and move it back and forth to massage your prostate.
- Try-Edging – The 5-minute speed jerk is fine for most days. But if you have a little extra time, “edging”—also called the stop-and-start method—can help you achieve more intense orgasms. Work yourself right up to the edge of ejaculation and then take a short break—just enough time for your erection to soften a bit. Then start the process over again.
FORGET No-Nut-November!
The myth of NO-NUT-NOVEMBER needs to be busted. Masturbation is healthy and avoiding it is only going to make you uncomfortable. Additionally, no health benefit is associated with the same. Though some might claim it improves the mind and body and reduces dependency, however, there is no concrete scientific evidence that suggests that. Purposefully not masturbating can be uncomfortable for most people. Epididymal hypertension, commonly referred to as “blue balls,” is a condition in which the testicles ache after being aroused for too long without ejaculation. The condition is often temporary and not dangerous.
CONCLUSION:
Solo sex is a great way to discover what arouses you sexually. In addition to feeling ridiculously pleasurable, masturbation also has several health benefits, from lowering your risk for certain diseases to boosting your satisfaction during sex with a partner, or improved sleep quality and reduced stress. (In other words, masturbation is great for your physical and emotional health.) That’s why masturbating, even when you’re having partner sex regularly, is still something you should do. Therefore, Male masturbation is a natural and normal part of human sexuality, and its importance extends beyond mere physical pleasure.
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